LOVE

Love- a quite wonderful and big word for me… never understood the real meaning of it, but today I understood it completely (in real sense, because today I am happy although she is not with me). When people generally talk about love(mutual) then they call it as a gift of god. Yes, surely it is a gift of god and an awesome feeling. But I feel this one sided love is also a good lesson from god. Some people say that First love is only the true love etc, but today I felt this true love. So here I am telling about the other aspect of love ( I might be wrong, but this is the thing which I learnt recently from various states of mind and looking at other’s relationship status).

first of all, I would like to thanks the god because he found me good enough for offering his blessings..yes, I loved someone although it was one sided but really an awesome feeling. Unfortunately or fortunately it could not reach up to its destination (although I would always wish that it must be a fortunate one( for her) because I will always wish for her happiness, her pleasure and that’s what I need.. and the best part of my feeling is that I don’t have any hard feeling for anyone and just happy in her happiness and I don’t have any regrets for not being the reason of her happiness.)

Now what i actually learnt that LOVE IS A PHASE OF LIFE and when it gets mutual then it becomes a relation of a lifetime…but if it is a one sided then it is a phase of a life…and you need to come out of it as early as possible because life is just to go on…and when you easily come out of it then don’t consider your love as infatuation or give it some other name, no, not at all, it is your strength because of which you came out from this tragedy and if you will do it with your heart, then you will love to do it, because ultimately you are doing this for the person’s (your love) pleasure, which is also a clear indication of your true, pure, awesome love… you just love the way you loved that persons…so now love this opposite way too.

You get serious for any person, totally committed (one sided) but if it is not written in destiny then how it can be possible… then you must not lose your identity, must go on.. You know, the best part about love (whether it is mutual or one sided) that it makes person more mature, more good and more sensible.

If it is love then you must be totally committed, must try to convert into a relation of lifetime, try your best but if it could not go up to that point then also you must respect yourself for all those things that you have done for that relationship and must not waste your time in crying, just memorizing that past and feeling sad..yes, you must remember those times and must feel proud on yourself for the way you were dedicated, the way you tried to hold the relationship and seriously it would give a good, happy, pleasure feeling.

It was not your bad- luck that the person with whom you were in love, could not be yours .it might be that person’s bad-luck or anything else but was not your fault at all because true love always make person better by heart, by feelings or by anything else…and after this feeling, you would seriously get yourself as a better person, better soul which is actually the blessing of god, the actual reason behind this love.

when the people just talk about their someone special then they say I love his/her those qualities etc..but according to me, true love does not need any reasons…it is totally your altruism..a pure feeling, which must be coming from deep inside of your heart and which does not require any reason and the best part is that I did not have any reason for loving her.. I just loved her, loved with her disqualities,loved with her reality, loved with all the purity of my heart.

But if you just move on then you need not to close your heart’s door... you know the one of the worst part of human nature is that we people always cry for the things what we don’t have.. but usually never become happy for what we have. You need not to cry for the reason that she could not be yours but look around in this beautiful world…you might get your soul mate..and even if you don’t get then also you must be happy because apart from love there are plenty of works to be done, plenty of responsibilities to be fulfilled by you, and if it would be written in your destiny then you would surely get your perfect soul-mate on the perfect timing.

Friends, life is very unpredictable, we all live in this unpredictable, but a beautiful world… so just live it at its fullest, enjoy your every moment and phase of a life, leave the rest on god, he has already set the things for you..just wait for his blessings and this is what I am doing too(although, I am very lucky, because he has already blessed me by giving me such a wonderful feeling..:)

Thank you god for all your blessing …:)

Thank you god for giving me chance for falling in love ..:)

Thank you god because now I respect myself ..:)

Thank you so much god to make me understand the real definition of love ..:)

Thank you so much god to make me a better person and one of the best person I have ever met ..:)